Question 1

I've just started dress shopping; what advice can you share?

Accepted Answer

When you first start wedding dress shopping, it can seem quite daunting as many options are available for every budget and in many styles. The time to start looking is after you've picked a venue, as this helps inform the overall feel of your wedding day. When it comes to finding the perfect style, thinking of an adjective that describes how you want to feel is a good start. Do you want to be sophisticated, bohemian or romantic, perhaps? It can also be helpful to think of what you don't want too, regardless of any pressure you might be feeling from friends or family about how they think you should look. I once had a well-meaning friend of the bride in the studio who was trying to dissuade the bride from her own choice saying, 'I've known Jenny all her life and she never wears dresses like that!' But it was exactly how the bride imagined herself on her wedding day and, of course, she had never worn a dress like it before as it was a wedding dress! If a gown you have fallen in love with online doesn't suit you when you try it on, keep an open mind and try on some wildcards. You won't be the first bride who looks for a slimline dress and ends up with a ballgown. Don't be afraid to say no to a gown that looks great but doesn't feel right for your day. There are many places to go dress hunting: boutiques, high street, dress makers, vintage and recycled dress sellers, and even charity shops. Wherever you go, don't feel pressured, and remember it's your day.

Question 2

I'm looking for a second look at my wedding while keeping costs down; what would you suggest?

Accepted Answer

There's an increasing trend for brides to buy a second or third dress on their wedding day. Your ceremony dress might be too sleek for the evening, you can't dance at a Ceilidh in a fit and flare, a ball gown with a long train and veil may ignite the late-night fire pit or maybe you just fancy letting down your hair and changing your look for the evening. If you've discounted the idea of a second dress because of your budget or it seems a little unethical, how about giving a vintage dress a second chance to shine? Real Green Dress has many affordable options that are eco-friendly at the same time! You'll find a wide choice of styles from skimpy '60s mini dresses to swirling '30s glamour. Maybe you'd prefer one of our contemporary dresses made from vintage fabrics; if so, we have plenty of ceremony dresses too!

Question 3

I've bought a dress with no embellishments, and now I'm worried it's too plain. How can I add the wow factor?

Accepted Answer

Congratulations on finding your dream dress! If you're concerned about feeling too plain, there are numerous ways to add that wow factor without compromising elegance. Why not incorporate a statement accessory, such as a bejewelled belt or a delicate lace sash, to cinch the waist while adding a touch of glamour? Alternatively, explore the option of a beautifully embellished veil for a dramatic and enchanting effect as you walk down the aisle. Talk to your dressmaker about adding carefully placed lace appliqués or intricate beadwork for a more subtle enhancement. These details can transform the simplicity of your dress into a masterpiece, ensuring all eyes are on you. A lace bolero is ideal for a winter wedding as it won't just add sophistication but also provides warmth during the chilly weather. Opt for a delicate lace that complements the style of your dress, ensuring a seamless and elegant look. Don't underestimate the power of well-chosen accessories like dazzling earrings or a bold headpiece that complements your style. Remember, it's the personal touches that make a gown uniquely yours. I'd be delighted to assist you by incorporating these elements into your dress, ensuring it reflects your style and radiates sophistication on your special day

Question 4

Who should I bring to my bridal appointment to ensure I get the right dress?

Accepted Answer

The journey of finding your dream wedding dress can hold some of the happiest memories in your life. It can also create moments of despair if your search is endless and you're confused, given your entourage's thoughts about what suits you. We've all dreamed of the moment we try on a gown while all our loved ones are crowded around, falling in love with the look. However, no matter who you bring to your appointment, your opinion is number one. Trust your instincts; don't let anyone else's opinion come before yours. The feeling you will get when you find that dream dress is your heart and your head telling you this is the one. You may want to share this experience with all your bridesmaids, mum, mother-in-law, aunts, grandmothers and wider family members, but bringing a huge entourage can lead to stress. The bigger your entourage, the more opinions. Some can be helpful, but too many could lead to disagreements. Bringing two or three people you're closest to may give you the best chance of saying 'yes to the dress'. These special people are the ones you would regret not being a part of your shopping experience and may include your mother, maid-of-honour, best friend or future mother-in-law. These people know you the best and if they don't absolutely love the dress you pick, they'll love it because you do!

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